Honestly I did not expect it to be so long between posts. But i guess a new house will do that to you. That and regular life starting too.
The kids are in school, the hubs is at work (as always), and our new house is slowly becoming out home. Most of the paint we want is up, new carpets for the bedrooms are being taken care of as I type, and hopefully we’ll have bedrooms 100% set up this weekend. B2 has been sleeping in what will become our computer room/library. We moved him there to paint his room, and since the carpet was only a week later, we’ve left him there. With all the bedrooms currently not in the bedrooms, the house seems cramped, but that’s ok cuz it soon won’t be, and the fugly carpets are going away. Yay! (and hopefully with it, my allergies that kicked up yesterday and don’t seem to want to settle down.)
Here’s some of what we’ve been working on… Unpacking, taking down built ins, new dining chairs, getting rid of grandma pink, and finally a sample of what life was like this morning after getting everything out of bedrooms. (please ignore that they are horrid phone pictures, it’s all I had energy for, and by that I mean I need a better phone camera)
I’ve been contemplating the last couple weeks of what to here. I like the Thankful Thursday posts, they have kept me writing, kept me positive, and change my view of circumstances. But this blog isn’t just a Thankful Thursday blog. Even though for stretches that’s all I’ve done. I’m ready for more. So the goal is to still write at least once a week, but switch things up. So about once a month I’ll do a Thankful Thursday, but the other weeks will have other stuff.
I have a couple ideas of subjects, but thought I’d also ask you for your opinions. I still write this blog for me and to be my outlet. But I also know that getting other opinions/suggestions can help us grow, or think of things we haven’t before. So… What subject or post have you really enjoyed here? What would you like to see more of?
Another short and sweet. We closed on our home yesterday, and are checking out of the hotel today!!!!!! Very excited, even though it means living in boxes while we try to find our stuff and get it put away.
Today’s post is short and sweet. DrH is currently working his 16th day in a row. And they’ve all been at least 11 hr days. Don’t worry he gets to do it all again tomorrow. BUT he has this weekend off. Like the whole weekend. What?!
That may seem a strange thing to be excited about, but only getting one day off a week or working long stretches with no days off is a pretty normal thing for Dr’s. So for him to finally get a day off, AND it’s two in a row… Very exciting. And I’m thankful for it. Plus he can finally go to church again, and people can see I’m not married to an imaginary man. lol
Celebrate the small stuff!
So a couple weeks back we decided to find a place to enjoy a family walk. And of course the boys (all 3) had to go Pokemon hunting. Aka Pokemoning. (just a term I’m coining. No? ok) It was a great way to get out and NOT hear complaining the whole time. Usually a few minutes in if they are bored or hot, or both, B1 and 2 want to know when we’ll be done and can go home. But if they even think they’re having fun…We had a fun time, we found a new place to enjoy, and the boys caught tonz of Pokemon. As for me? Well this is the type of Pokemon I caught.
Guess what?! No… we still live in a hotel! But in better news we will soon be homeless. I’m so excited! No, really. Everything is still on track for our home out West to close on Monday. And we won’t have to worry about it anymore. YAY!
Theoretically we also close this next week on our new home here, but instead of getting to write a Thankful Thursday post about it yesterday (and how this time next week I won’t be living in a hotel), I got to comfort my husband and try not to freak out inside. The underwriter, loan officer, whoever, that we are dealing with for our loan is being a jerk face. We have given them everything but our fist born, and they still want us to jump through some hoops. UGH!!!!!! So we sit here worried that they won’t actually give us the loan they said we could have to buy the home we should close on next week. STRESS!!!!!!ING!!!!!!!!!!!OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!
Deep breaths, and positive thoughts.
Apparently God wants me to change my attitude about life. I keep wanting things to go more smoothly and people to chill out. But that’s NEVER how things go for us. Like ever. It’s always a hassle, and extra work on our part. So jealous of you people that just have things go right. Anywho… Apparently God wants me to chillax myself and be ok with things taking extra time and steps and stress and hassle. Maybe one day I’ll learn that lesson. But every time I just keep thinking that “this time things are going to work out and go smoothly.” HA! So fingers crossed we can still buy this house, cuz I sorta already signed the kids up for school.
Happy Friday everyone!
Another week… yep still in a hotel. Hotel living gives you an appreciation of normal life. And maybe that’s what I’ve been needing to learn here. In everyday life it’s easy to get into ruts, things to be boring, and for us to become ungrateful for the blessings we have. In the “bla” of everyday we stop seeing those smaller blessings that really make our everyday wonderful, and functional.
Having a proper kitchen, I have always been grateful of a good kitchen, but not having one for a month and a half lets me know how much I truly appreciate it. And it also lets me know that you really can get by with much less than we have. And we take it all for granted.
We have so much luxury, so much technology to make our lives easier, it all becomes the everyday to us and we don’t see how truly miraculous it all really is. How lucky we really are to have it in our lives.
Yes we’re going to forget, and start to take things for granted. We’ll get in our ruts, and complain. But then we’ll get to have something happen to help us remember how blessed we are, and how much we have. We just have to realize that bad days help us see, and appreciate the good ones. Use them to re-adjust our perspective, not seeing the bad day today, but the blessings that are always around us. Even in bad days we have many blessings. And I’m grateful to have these moments of realization to change my perspective. And get out of my self pity parties. Because there are so many miracles in everyday life for me to appreciate.